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[Beauty] As body image affects our emotional life and personality

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Our body - not just a repository of our mind, will and our feelings, it is the very source of our feelings, our will, and even our minds. The way in which our body is built and how it is able to - a serious factor that influences and situational emotional state, and the prospects for personal development. In psychology, the study of body structure and the internal state of the relationship of man began with research and E.Krechmera HS Sheldon. They described the relationship of three types of body constitution, and three types of character. The descriptions are very similar, only the names are different: endomorph - analogue astenikov, ectomorph - analogue picnic, mesomorph - similar lifting.


In psychotherapy research gained popularity Alexander Lowen, the author of several books on body-oriented psychotherapy. Loewen studied how chronic muscle tension in various parts of the body affect human health. According to his observations, the bodily expression of the emotional health of a grace of movement, good muscle tone, good contact with others and with the soil under your feet (in the terminology of bioenergy - is a "grounding"), a clear view and a nice soft voice.

Just as everyone has an expression, each of us has a "body image" - unique, but the combination of features and characteristics of our body is quite popular, which creates our mood and our character. Each body has its own pattern, which consists of drawing gait, shoulders reversal or stoop, a certain poise and a certain pattern of gestures, facial expressions and the characteristic familiar intonations. Together with the expression pattern of the body creates a personal-psychological background, which reveals the human condition, and forms it. Stooped, shuffling gait, frozen eyes and pursed his lips habitually hurt - bad personal background. Straight back, free collected gait, lively eyes and a smile on his face - an option more interesting.

Man begins with body image. That is to say: with the muzzle or face, or with the carcasses of the camp, with the legs and strong and beautiful hands. As well as the physical energy or pale weakness. The way in which our body is built, what is his pattern, and in what condition it is - a serious factor that influences and situational emotional state, and the prospects for personal development. It's amazing how decisive for the people for their character, moods and dispositions is their body: their body image.

Let these sketches - the food in the subway, human Showcases before me. Well, he can not with the body, or rather, with such a person, to be the chief. In the face, shoulders, hands in motion as though imprinted:. "I have no one here" although some already degenerating purebred copy of the spiritual nature of sitting next to him. And over there, is with your mouth closed, - Marketplace skandalistka from birth. Indeed, through her body - not trample. Next, worthy of museum display cases, a copy of - the victim, strict and dignified bearing his cross. Behind her sits an accountant, smilingly blunt to everything that does not fit into the framework of debits and credits. But tumbled into the car seat and fell to beef breed, which, in addition developed digestive and basic instinct, there are no other details.

Watching the body pattern of other people, we can say a lot about their level of development, lifestyle, character and state of mind. The simplest thing you should pay attention - this posture, gestures and gait. Walk for an experienced man of the personnel speaks of man more than his resume. Slipshod gait - a disorganized life. The usual antics and pereminanie from foot to foot, from toe to heel, the more usual shifty eyes - is the inability to calm, confident openness. Underdeveloped fine motor finger, palm shovel - means the inability of a person of fine feeling and a quick sharp thinking. Clips neck area - it is always a lack of confidence, it is always a little neurosis.

Our conversation about the interaction of body and soul, we would like to separate from authors such as Louise Hay, Louise Bourbeau and other popularizers of pseudo-scientific ideas of psychosomatic medicine. Louise Hay believes that angina is a consequence of the fact that you hold back from harsh words and feel the inability to express themselves, hemorrhoids - fear not to meet at a certain time, the anger in the past and the fear of parting, sexually transmitted diseases - from guilt of sexual violence as self-punishment, and constipation - the reluctance to part with old thoughts and bogged down in the past ... Yes, it is a brilliant business model that makes a sick person also client of a therapist, but the scientific basis of these fantasies is not.

Expression, eyes and lips - things are more subtle than the body posture, gestures and gait. They are difficult to describe, but this information is deeper and more accurate for a careful man. Carefully observe characteristic of human facial expressions: if the eyes - a mirror of the soul, the expression on his face - a record of all his destiny. Listen to the voice of a man. Best of all, if you can not hear the content, will be able to listen to the voice just like the music or the voice of a foreigner, then you will hear his character.

"Wise people will read your past life by your appearance, gait, behavior. The property expression of nature. Even the smallest detail of that day shows. The man's face is like a mirror reflecting what is inside," wrote Ralph Waldo Emerson

Our body - a book in which our life is written: not just the past but the future, and who are able to read this book - it is read. The five - seven years on everyone's face is all written in the eyes of each already imprinted his values ​​and his way, and you just need eyes to see it all.

The adoption of strong poses - such as posture of confidence, even in situations where we do not feel confident - affect blood testosterone and cortisol levels and increases our chances of success. MBA students often exhibit a full range of non-verbal expressions of power. Some of them behave like real alpha males, they occupy just two places and pick up just two hands, when they want to answer. Other students simply fade when they occur, and it shows on their faces and the position of the bodies - they literally reduced in size. Social psychologist, professor and researcher at Harvard business school, Amy Cuddy shows how we can use body language to change our understanding of ourselves.

Correcting their own body image, we get additional opportunities to manage their condition. Putting yourself energetic and confident gait, we create the basis for the usual self-confidence. Keeping alive and the person concerned, we raise their motivation to work. In working with couples who want to learn how to negotiate with each other, we often recommend that they buy soft toys that you can hold in their hands and gently stroking his hand while talking. As long as the hand gently stroking bear or seal pup, as gently sound and intonation are talking quietly, understanding each other: the soft hand of an adequate mental attitude. If the hand of one of the interlocutors begins to "unscrew" seal pup's head, so the conversation went in the wrong direction. We need to stay and something to change what is happening.

His body can make a beautiful and help your life. How? What you usually need to pay attention in the first place? Primarily useful to achieve the following objectives: to stoop to replace the royal carriage, remove bodily rattling, learn relaxation and confident gestures. When you deal with it and feel how life has changed, you do not have problems, and perfection. These are: the royal manners, soft gestures, a correct vector force, build and deliver voice gait.
источник: http://www.psychologos.ru/articles/view/kak_risunok_tela_vliyaet_na_nashu_dushevnuyu_zhizn_i_lichnost
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Опубликовано 23.3.2015 00:36:22 Author | Posted 23/03/2015 00:36:22

Re: How the body image affects our emotional life and personality

Continuing the theme

Dear Parents, be careful when choosing one or another sport for their children, you choose their character and fate. Skiing on long distances, like sports, form the psychology of singles, able through the voltage on one will move toward the goal, which he always looks a little askance. Swimming less developed will, but it gives more attention to the art of movement and gives the ability to enjoy life. Tennis - a sense of the pair, the ability to build a strategy, do not be afraid to play and be able to apply precise bounces. Football, as a sport, it's a sense of team, the ability to catch the excitement and kicking backhand, throwing in a blow all their aggression!

I'm far away, on the street, unlike the athlete from the amateur to lie down on the couch: the athletes other gait, their legs fly accurately and elastic, in the body of vigorous energy, a strong reversal of the shoulders and head on a strong neck. And almost always - attentive eyes. Athletes know what purpose, have the goal to hold and aim to achieve. They have the will, not only desire, they are able to work without accidents Ohoven and eyes, discipline, as well as keeping time, in their blood, and they know what the joy of victory.

It is no accident of the athletes left a lot of successful businessmen. The athlete knows how much he will serve his body, he is able to squeeze out of it all - everything! - Resources, and when the body can only write off, say goodbye to professional sports and moving to another business.

My respect for you, a true athlete!


As for the girls, the lively and cheerful girl with a slim and athletic figure and has a better chance at a great family, and success in life, so the sport - is necessary. Sport is desirable to choose the one that is associated with staying on fresh air and physical activity - running, biking, roller skates, winter skating and skiing. However, the girl also needs its own special sport, because the girl did not need force, but the other three things, namely: a) flexibility, b) general coordination of movements (deft hands) and c) of grace, beauty and fluidity of movement. Therefore, the power loads - swing the press and doing sit-ups, but replace the horizontal bar on the push-ups.

Swimming is good for health, but professional training for girls formed quite the man's shoulders, not quite feminine. For this reason, gymnastics Gymnastics useful. Tennis is useful both large and small, good and yoga and fitness, with more than team sports for boys, for girls useful to the individual and pair dances. Once again, the most important and absolutely indispensable for any sports girl - it dances. Dance, dance, dance! You can start with folk dances, keep any modern, but sooner or later required experience pair of dance, at least Hustle (the simplest and most affordable) and salsa (a bit richer). The pair dances disappear fear of partner's body, dancing can be close and take the hand that can be difficult for teens. If Hustle - this is the minimum program, ballroom dancing and dance sport - already the world of princesses.

By selecting a specific sports or dance studio, usually more important to pay attention not to a particular sport and not a kind of dance, and what sort of people are out there and what style of communication in the first place what is the culture of the coach. Quality worthy of a coach trains not so much a particular sport or dance, he teaches respect for people and life. If you find such a coach - you can be calm. However, a different age girls must be chosen different coaches ...
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Опубликовано 23.3.2015 00:39:22 Author | Posted 23/03/2015 00:39:22

Re: How the body image affects our emotional life and personality

for me, the first that the second post ochne relevant .... First, I see much analogy with emotions and how are we "bear."
Second, just now I write down the children in the pool, and the daughter she asked to the dance and still wants to sing! With songs I think we shall understand, but the dances we have 3.5 years at least, better 4.
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Posted 24/03/2015 15:17:24

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on this subject there is even a book, including the Internet.
Liked? "Five injuries that hinder be yourself"
psychology is connected with the body, behavior, and so forth.
http://ki-moscow.narod.ru/litra/med/5travm/5travm_1.htm
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Posted 24/03/2015 17:47:23

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Maybe this is really what that is, but looking at the figures and faces of some politicians and businessmen, there are some doubts. They then certainly achieved some success in life, but very few people of them are handsome, with a harmoniously developed figure, posture and well-modulated voice. Even just nice people among them are not so many, especially among male politicians. Very often, on the contrary undersized unattractive men have excessive ambitions, and what is most interesting, in most cases, implement them in life. So oborazom they are gaining attention, send a signal to the world, "yes, I'm ugly and neobayatelen, but I have power, I'm smart and ambitious and I always get what I want." But the hand-made beauties with perfectly developed figure, fascinating voice and the grace of a lion, often are lazy, stupid, conceited and lack of initiative. Everything is as usual, comes from childhood. Beautiful children more favored teachers, they, as it is now customary to say, there is social capital, initially, without any special effort. And the ugly and unprepossessing often have to prove to the world, to assert yourself, your mind and other qualities. So ugly and often achieve more.
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